Situations do come our way daily. What is important about the situations that we faced daily is that it boils down to how we tackle/react to them. If you are able to tackle a situation from the perspective of knowing what you are capable of, you will be more apt to come out at the end smiling or have a sense of joy than a sense of sadness or feeling sorry for yourself. Remember they have said, life is 10 % what happen to you and 90% of how you react to whatever situation that come your way. Therefore, if the same situations have been bothering you for some time now, then it is time to consider a reconstruction.