Will the condition of my life get better when I complain? NO!
Sometimes if we are not reminded of our purpose and that a setback is not for us to sit back, complain and think about all the things that are not going right. What that will do is keep us in a state that we don’t really want to be in.
I can do two things with the things I don’t like, change it or change the way I think about it because complaining is wasting precious time and energy.
With all the challenges of living in a modern society, it is inevitable for people to complain. In fact, almost everyone living in every nook and comer of his world has complained at some point in his/ her life. Although everybody knows that is not good to complain and criticize, many still tend to do so. So how can you stop complaining? Below are tips to help.
- Mental conditioning.
Do you know that if you repeat having the same thoughts over and over again, you will condition your mind to a large extent? That is why negative thought is very dangerous because it is so addictive. If you keep conditioning your mind to expect something bad all the time, your mind to always crave for such inputs and you will end up becoming a negativity magnet.
- Take total responsibility.
Complaining is just a way of running way from responsibility. The ultimate solution to complaining is by taking total responsibility. For instance, if you are unhappy, you must admit that you are unhappy because you are creating it. Take total responsibility for everything that you do be it good or bad.
- Stop thinking negatively.
According to a recent research, most people who complain have negative thoughts. Although it is a very difficult trap to escape from, you can overcome it if you are willing to get help. Start by accepting that you actually have problem and work towards solving it.
I forget sometimes that I should not complain but my good friends remind me when I forget.
Today I am here to remind you not to complain.
IT IS POSSIBLE TO GO BEYOND LIMITATIONS. IT MAY NOT BE EASY, BUT IT IS POSSIBLE.
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